What will my relationship be like with my spouse in heaven?

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Often times we wonder what our relationship would be with our spouse in heaven. Sometimes if there was more than one spouse during a lifetime, due to death, we wonder which we’ll be with in heaven. This exact question was asked by the Sadducees to JesusThe Sadducees asked Jesus a related question saying, “Teacher, Moses said that if a man dies, having no children, his brother shall marry his wife and raise up offspring for his brother.  Now there were with us seven brothers. The first died after he had married, and having no offspring, left his wife to his brother. Likewise the second also, and the third, even to the seventh. Last of all the woman died also.  Therefore, in the resurrection, whose wife of the seven will she be? For they all had her” (Matthew 22:24-28).

The Answer

Jesus had quite an interesting answer: “Ye do err not knowing the scriptures for in heaven they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are as the angels” (Matthew 22:29). It appears that marriage in and of itself is an earthly union designed to protect and guide families through the temptations of the world and also made for procreation to populate the earth (Genesis 1:28).

In heaven, those who have overcome sin through the power of Christ, will unite together in holy socialization. And it will make sense that those who we marry will be the closest to us in heaven, since they are acquainted best with our characters. However, marriage under its definition may not be practiced in heaven as it is here on earth. Further there will be no more need for procreation since the earth is already populated.

The Issue

Some have been daunted by this thought since many feel sex is a need and deep desire of the human body. However, humans underestimate what heaven will be like. There, senses will be heightened and there will be new forms of pleasure that we don’t fully understand now. These future experiences will eclipse the pleasure of the sexual union.

The Lord granted sex and marriage as a blessing on this earth and as mentioned earlier, a form of protection from temptation. So, we can only imagine what He has prepared for His children in the eternal life. The Bible gives us a faint glimpse of what life then would be like in the following verse: “Eye hath not seen, neither has entered into the heart of man the things that the Lord has prepared for those that love Him” (1 Corinthians 2:9).

In His service,
BibleAsk Team

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