How can we become sons and daughters of God?


By BibleAsk Team

Sons and Daughters of God

The right of becoming the adopted sons and daughters of God is the supreme advantage He gives those who are born of the Spirit. Jesus said, “Verily, verily, I say unto thee, except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God… unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God” (John 3:3-5). The reference to “water” is a clear allusion to water baptism (Matthew 3:5, 6, 11).

Those who are born from above have God as their Father and resemble Him in character (1 John 3:1-3; John 8:39, 44). From now on, they aim, by His grace, to live above sin (Romans 6:12–16) and do not submit their wills to do evil (1 John 3:9; 5:18). They live to glorify His Name and share His goodness (Psalm 34:3).

Saving Faith

The Bible declares: “For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God” (Ephesians 2:8). It is grace on God’s part and faith on man’s part. Faith accepts the blood of Jesus that was shed to atone for man’s sin (John 3:16). It is through the act of entrusting ourselves to Him that we are saved, not that faith is the means of our salvation, but simply the channel (Romans 4:3).

Salvation is not gained by human work. It is a free gift, without money or price (Isaiah 55:1; John 4:14; 2 Corinthians 9:15; 1 John 5:11). Works are not a cause but an effect of salvation (Romans 3:31). People don’t do good works to be saved but because they are saved. God does the work in them as they submit to Him. “Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us” (Ephesians 3:20).

Daily Relationship with Christ

In the life of Jesus, as a Son of God, we have a perfect example of a father-son relationship (Luke 2:49; John 1:14; 4:34; 8:29). The secret of the success of this relationship lies in abiding in Him. Jesus said, “Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me” (John 15:4). To abide in Christ means that the soul must be in daily, constant communion with Him through studying the Word, prayer and witnessing. And the soul must live His life through His enabling power (Galatians 2:20).

Victorious Life

The moving force in this relationship is love, and its fruit is obedient trust. Without these characteristics, there can be no true father-son or daughter experience. God desires that these qualities shall be a reality in the life of every believer (1 John 1:1–7). “But you are not in the flesh but in the Spirit, if indeed the Spirit of God dwells in you. Now if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, he is not His. And if Christ is in you, the body is dead because of sin, but the Spirit is life because of righteousness” (Romans 8:9, 10 also 2 Corinthians 7:1). A person can’t clean himself for he has no power to do that (Romans 7:22–24). But he can be made holy only by letting God work in and through him (Philippians 2:12, 13;  1 Peter 1:22).

Eternal Life

Jesus said, “But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, to those who believe in His name: who were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God” (John 1:12–13).  God promises to act the part of a Father to those who become His sons and daughters, to be their Provider, Protector, Healer, Counselor, Guide, and Deliverer. What a glorious experience!

John exclaims, “Behold what manner of love the Father has bestowed on us, that we should be called children of God! Therefore the world does not know us, because it did not know Him. Beloved, now we are children of God; and it has not yet been revealed what we shall be, but we know that when He is revealed, we shall be like Him, for we shall see Him as He is” (1 John 3:1, 2).

In His service,
BibleAsk Team

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